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Finding the ART in Your Bridal Party: Making the Most of Your Support Team

Posted by [email protected] on June 24, 2018 at 12:00 AM Comments comments (17515)

Congratulations! You’ve chosen a wedding date, a venue, and the song for your first dance. You’ve asked

your closest friends and family to stand up with you and support you through the months leading up to your

big day. Your bridal party is there to not only celebrate this milestone in your life, but also to be a sounding

board for your ideas for your ceremony and reception. Ideally, they could be much more if you utilize them

for their gifts, and develop the A.R.T. of having so many people assist in making your day special.

Remember these three key phrases as you go about creating a beautiful wedding.

Ask for help. The first step is recognizing you two can’t do everything yourselves. Reach out to your

bridesmaids and groomsmen and explain to them all that’s involved in putting a wedding together and your

current planning needs. Even if everyone can’t pitch in at the same level, they will work to see that they find

a way to assist you beyond what is prescribed based on your honesty. Don’t be afraid to request their

support and keep them in the loop on the latest in getting your nuptials on track.

One way to allow your team to support your needs is to help them get to know each other as soon as

possible. Send out an email with all their contact information. A group outing for drinks, dinner or even

bowling can turn into a great opportunity to connect and bond to provide you with a stronger support

network. Often, bridal parties don’t live in the same town, so set up a Google hangout or a Skype session so

everyone can say hello and potentially discuss any information you sent out on your needs. Create Pinterest

boards of all the looks and styles you have planned with your maid of honor and best man, who will help you

keep the big picture and details together and can also help you coordinate and manage traditional details of

your bridal party requests. Their collaboration and your communication with them will be vital to getting

everything you have planned off the ground and maybe, when they get to know one another, create some

surprises for one or the both of you as well.

Recognize the talent! Has your best man hosted conferences at hotels? He can make some catering

suggestions for your reception. A bridesmaid is a CPA? Ask her to look over your wedding budget to help

you stay on target with your expenses. Your maid of honor is a stage manager at her community’s local

theater? She may be able to help you time out the logistics of the wedding day into a document you can

share with everyone.

The point is, everyone in your bridal party is bringing a skill, talent, or connection to the table. Sometimes,

it’s not one that they even realize they can share in a meaningful way, but you or your fiancé/e knows them

well enough to be able to think of little but significant ways they can aid you in a better event. Utilize their

expertise and make sure that you honor the information or resources they provide you with by using them

responsibly. That could mean leaving that piece of your wedding-be it flowers, music, or transportation- in

their hands and only checking in on that piece periodically; every two weeks, request an update: once a

month if your wedding is 12+ months away. Additionally, if you’re using their professional connection to

obtain a service for your rehearsal, wedding or honeymoon , do your best to follow up in a timely way and

ensure you preserve their relationship with respect, forethought and gratitude. Shower them and their “hook-

up” with affection and thanks. Also, delegate responsibly. Don’t assign any more than two people to one task

and make sure to remember they are helping you, but have their own lives and responsibilities. Their talent

also has limits: don’t create unrealistic expectations or timetables for them to provide you with support or

resources. You want to have a closer relationship with your bridal party after your wedding than before it.

Take a step back. You’ve shared your needs and put pieces of your most important event in the hands of

your attendants, communicated the odds and ends about all the big and little details, and everything is in

place. Now, it’s 48 hours before your wedding day. If you’ve put everything together well, you will be able to

turn everything over to your best man and maid of honor and let them be in charge. Yes, you have to let

THEM be in charge. As a 3 time maid of honor and 6 time bridesmaid with a very well-stocked bridal

emergency kit, I can assert that it makes your wedding less stressful by letting the control go. Their taking

the reins allows you more time to spend with out of town guests, your parents, and your future spouse, and

also to just plain relax. Your job now is to enjoy the beauty of watching all your planning unfold and savor all

the memories. Don’t miss the opportunity to live in the moment!

When you have made the best use of your bridal party, you are able to get more out of your wedding

experience and also create a closer, more meaningful bond with people who you have chosen to share in

this incredible time in your life.

Aria M. Mason is a local opera singer, music minister, and wedding musician who has coordinated music at weddings in churches and courtyards alike. Learn more about her here.

(This article originally appeared in the fall 2013 issue of NOLA Wedding Guide.)

Alterations 101: Tips for the Perfect Fit

Posted by [email protected] on March 13, 2018 at 12:30 AM Comments comments (7497)

You're on a quest for the dress of your dreams. You've found it and it takes your breath away…but it doesn't quite fit. The salesperson assures you it WILL fit when you head down the aisle. How can you be sure it's not just a sales pitch?

Following the suggestions below can ensure that on your special day, everything looks -and fits- just as it should.

Know your size. Bridal sizing differs from sizing for street clothes. Often, it's two sizes above your regular size. If you're interested in a particular designer, investigate their sizing guide so you can know what to ask for at the boutique. You want the size that comfortably fits the largest part of your body and is as near to yours as possible: something too big will almost need rebuilding if you purchase the sample (not cheap), and you may not like the fit when ordered. Similarly, it's difficult (and costly) to let out a dress more than one or two sizes, especially if the fabric offers little seam allowance (such as silk, satin, or velvet) without the original seam line showing.

Leave the clamps at Home Depot. Every wedding show brings out those big white clamps to give you the perfect silhouette in the gown. However, sometimes the image in the mirror isn't what you'll get once it's altered. Instead, ask for someone in alterations to come pin the dress, if possible, so you can get a feel for what the actual modifications to the dress will look like.

Ask about the fine print. Some bridal salons advertise "free alterations". Unfortunately, that often means the minimum- taking up hems, shortening straps, repairing loose beadwork, etc. That doesn't necessarily include taking in or letting out a dress several sizes, altering the waistline, or adding additional beadwork or sleeves. If extensive alterations aren't in their included offerings, you may be best served by having your work done by a tailor or modiste. Also, hire a professional or work with a friend or family member with extensive experience with bridal/formal wear: your wedding dress shouldn't be someone's learning curve.

Make an appointment. If the boutique offers alterations appointments, I strongly suggest you make one. Find a slot that allows for a full hour; don't try to squeeze a fitting into an already busy day or your lunch break. Ask the shop to recommend a good time to come in. Alert, kind seamstresses and brides are happy seamstresses and brides! Make an evening appointment on a weekday (avoid Saturdays for fittings if at all possible). You want their full concentration on your dress.

Bring your foundation garments and shoes to ALL of your fittings. Yes, this is absolutely necessary. They should also fit correctly. Even if they don't appear to drastically shape you, your foundation garments (including bridal slip and Spanx) WILL affect the way the dress hangs on your figure. You don't want to end up with a different fit on your wedding day because of a different bra. Depending upon the cut of the dress, wearing the wrong bra can even affect whether the hem hangs evenly. If you're not able to get shoes you want before your fitting, wear shoes at the same heel height as your intended purchase and have the hem marked for the next fitting, when you can bring the pair you'll actually wear.

Don't trip. No, really. If you aren't confident in your ability to glide everywhere with ease, get your hem taken up to about 1" from the floor. You'll be at a heightened anxiety level on your big day, and you want to ensure you can remain effortlessly glamorous throughout it. If you are wearing a long veil, I recommend trying it on with your dress to make sure the hem of the dress and the fall of the veil correspond.

Get fitted later than sooner. Have your fittings -ideally, three- scheduled within two months of your big day. Fitting done too early means that whatever weight you gain or lose during your planning process won't impact the fit of your dress too greatly. No one wants to be mainlining fried chicken (or the Master Cleanse!) during the most exciting time of their betrothal because they jumped the gun. Your last fitting should be two weeks before your wedding so any problems that arise have enough time to be corrected.

Courteous brides get the best fits. It should go without saying, but arrive for your fitting clean, gum and beverage free, and polite. Your tailor will appreciate it. Try not to move around too much while they are pinning: it ensures the most accurate fit and keeps you from getting stuck. Listen with an open mind to their recommendations about your dress- they are professionals who are intimately familiar with garment construction, and may know of a better way to make the look match your vision. You can get a second opinion after the fact, but hear them out.

Take your posse. Have your mom, maid of honor, or a close friend come with you to at least two fittings, especially the final fitting. They bring a valuable second pair of eyes to the gowns' fit, and spot any problem areas you or the seamstress hasn't spotted. They will also be able to find out how to best zip, lace, and bustle your gown from the experts, so it can be replicated correctly on your wedding day. If no one can accompany you, ask for the directions to be written down.

Test the fit. You want to be able to dance, sit, hug, and walk on your big day. After the dress has been pinned to you and you're given the all clear to leave the pedestal, take a minute to get down and move around so you can let the seamstress know if adjustments need to be made.

I hope this advice allows you to have the best experience possible and find quality, one-on-one service. Happy fitting!

Aria M. Mason is the daughter of a bride who made her dress without a pattern, the niece, granddaughter and great granddaughter of modistes, a three time MOH, and has been sewing costumes and gowns for nearly 20 years. You can learn more about her at (This article initially appeared in NOLA Wedding Guide Magazine in the fall 2013 issue.)